I’ve had a bit of a thing for table settings for a long time now. I’ve always had a respect for vintage china and my love of design makes tablscaping something I really enjoy. But it wasn’t until I fell down the steps while holding my grandmother’s china, breaking an entire set of salad plates in the process, that I felt free to explore collecting and using tabletop pieces in new and different ways. This was actually quite liberating…
I’m delighted to be joining with 5 of my favorite bloggers to bring you a new monthly series focused on creating beautiful and unique table settings. In today’s offering I illustrate mixing old and new in a seasonal tablescape for spring, while displaying some ideas for approaching your table in a completely fresh way.
Let’s revisit that set of dishes that wound up in a million pieces inside the little quilted china storage case. Up until that point, I approached every event at my dining table in exactly the same way, with a complete set of matched china in the one and only pattern I owned, with the same formal flatware, same stemware, and every piece laid out according to proper dictated etiquette. Lovely the first few times, but predictable if not bland henceforth. Once my china set was shattered, so was my rigid approach to tablescaping. I was suddenly free to buy china in any pattern I wanted, rather than feel obligated to use the china passed down in our family. That freedom unleashed an open-minded perspective and I threw all the rules out the window. I haven’t looked back since.
These days my tables tend toward a more relaxed and inspired mix, driven more by what I love than what I think I’m supposed to do. On this quintessentially spring table graced with formal and casual alike, my florals marry pink tulips with perky green mason jars. I had gone to the market looking for peonies but it was a little too early in the season, so my ‘roll with it’ attitude regrouped and tulips became the flower of the day.
This wonderful confection sweetens the center of my table and to create a suitable presentation, I picked one of my favorite vintage serving plates and simply mounted it atop an inexpensive no-frills cake plate.
Perhaps the best example of my flouting of the rules is the tablecloth used for this setting. I’ve been wanting a washed linen tablecloth with a homespun vibe for a while but haven’t had the chance to get one yet. My tablescapes are built intuitively these days and a walk past the valet hook in my closet brought this voluminous white scarf to my attention. Recently purchased on a shopping trip with my daughter, I sensed it would be the perfect underpinning for my table. Indeed it fit the table and the lovely crocheted edging adds a note of country flavor.
My plate stack showcases my concept with the ideal mix of old and new. The dinner plate at the bottom is Mikasa English Countryside, the plates I use for my everyday dishes yet a wonderful foundation for what comes above. The simple china patterned plate in the middle is from Haviland Limoges and is the dinner plate that was left from my ill-fated china set. The irony is, I never really loved the pattern when it was used by itself, but it makes a fabulous complement to a more decorative piece, such as the salad plates I have on top. These charming delicate floral plates were found recently at an antique market and I hadn’t thought to mix them with my existing china until I was playing with this table setting.
I so enjoy a sun kissed table and the tulips opening to greet the light remind me of a cherub with pursed lips.
I’m a big fan of candlesticks with bobeches and these rose colored samples worked nicely with my theme. I normally use them with unpolished brass candle holders but I enjoyed the surprise of the silver on this table.
Among my favorite napkins and an excellent choice for this tableau are these blush pink ruffled linens from Pom Pom at Home. I stayed low key and simple with the napkin rings to let the linens take center stage.
Champagne flutes in a pale rose add a wonderful glow to the table.
These delightful demitasse cups are another favorite, purchased at an antique market in Paris when I took my daughter there for her 16th birthday. They are particularly special to me as I always think of that trip when I look at them.
One of the most frequent comments I get from people looking at my tablescapes is that my flatware is often placed together on the right side of my plates, breaking all kinds of etiquette rules. I do this to allow room for my napkins which I like to cluster together in a ring and I feel the table looks prettier this way. Yes, I know where the flatware belongs but you won’t find it there any time soon.
Thanks for visiting with me and letting me share my spring tablescape with you. If I’ve inspired you to break a few rules then I will consider my post a success. I guess I’ve always been a bit of a rebel…
I’m joining with 5 other bloggers to bring you this monthly tablescape series.
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Absolutely beautiful… It screams elegant gracious spring tablescape- I love that you think outside of the box with your flatware… There were no rules as long as it’s beautiful !
Thanks so much, Tina! Totally agree about the rules… 🙂
LOVE this table, Lory! Breaking the rules definitely creates a gorgeous and inviting table. I’m ready to pull up a chair!
Thanks, Julie! You’re welcome at my table any time… 🙂
Lory, your table setting is sheer perfection! Love the touches of pink and all the femininity of your tablescape. I could look at it forever!
Thanks, Jennifer! I just visited yours as well, and I see we share a love for pink and green… 🙂 I’m really going to enjoy doing this new series!!
How do you use the 3 plates in your setting? Do they all remain on the table used one by one and gradually removed throughout the dinner?
Hi Sherry! I generally collect the salad plates when the guests sit down to dinner and hold it aside for dessert. The bottom plate is usually a charger, so it’s just there for display. In this case, I was setting a smaller table and I had 2 sizes of dinner plates, so the bottom one functioned as the charger. Thanks for visiting… 🙂
Such a gorgeous table setting, love your vintage plates simply beautiful….
Have a great day~
Maritza
Thanks so much, Maritza!!
I love your table settings, and always take a good long look as you add so many beautiful pieces –don’t want to miss a thing! Your Limoges china is gorgeous!
Thank you for the lovely comment, Bobbi! (Sorry – I’m getting behind in answering my comments these days, but if I miss some, please know I do read and appreciate every last one… :-))
Lory: You have turned soft, pink tables into an art form. I love your table! The vintage china is wonderful, as is your silver. What a delightful table in which to have lunch!
Thanks, Maria! Such a nice thing to say… 🙂 Yes, I’m definitely a pink girl, for sure… lol!
Lory, I have to admit I’m not usually drawn to tablescapes but this post caught my eye. I love those pink frilly napkins and the white scarf “tablecloth.” I found your take on table setting liberation interesting and have sometimes wondered what I would do differently if I suddenly lost everything that I’ve inherited or paid too much for. You have a lovely approach to mixing old and new decor that I enjoy. Thanks for sharing this thoughtful post.
Thank you, Pat! I so appreciate your comment, particularly given you’re not usually into tablescapes. So glad it resonated with you. Yeah, I definitely tend toward the rebellious… 😉
I love your relaxed approach, especially the flatware placement! The result has so much personality!
Thank you, Janet! I’m so glad the personality came through. You’d be surprised how many times I’ve had people tell me where the forks belong… lol! Kind of makes me laugh every time… 😉
Love this look. I think if it looks beautiful and you like it what could be a problem. Your linens and china are lovely.
Thanks so much, Emily! And I so agree. Never understood why people get stuck in rigid perceptions of design. Thanks for stopping by!!
Absolutely delectable!! Now…that’s having your cake and eating it too!!! franki
Ha ha! Thanks… 🙂 (I did manage to stay away from the cake. Gave it to hubby and the kids!!)
Oh my!!! I love how you’ve mixed old with the new. I am currently collecting pink depression glass for a Summer lunch and am swooning over this table! So beautiful. Also, your candle sticks match my kitchen chandeliers!!!! I would sell my right arm for them. 😉
Ha ha… thanks!! I love pink depression glass, too. I have some tiny dessert cups and little plates. I’m sure your summer lunch will be lovely… 🙂
Your tablescapes is adorable. It so reminds me of my grandmother who had a lovely pink China pattern that she paired with white crocheted edged table linens that she made and pink depression glass. As a child, I loved to imagine entertaining on a grand scale with her lovely pink pieces.
You have definitely brought those memories to life for me today!?
Thanks, Mimi! What a lovely memory… 🙂
Oh my, your table is stunning! Those napkins, the tea cup, it’s all lovely.
Just gorgeous – great ideas for book club – I have the same silverware which belonged to my mom – over 60 years old. Your table is stunning.
I sure do like the China,. My colors. I sure would like to find soft pink flowers like yours.
Hi Lory, I’m Anne from Birdsong Bits and Pieces (https://birdsongbitsandpieces.blogspot.com), and I found you from the Feathered Nest link up. Your table looks lovely. I’ve always loved the idea of mixing china, but I know it’s not as easy as it would seem. Thank you for the inspiration! I hope you can stop by my blog at some point to say hello….
Hi Anne and welcome! I will certainly stop by and say hello… 🙂 I love finding like minded bloggers!! Thanks so much for the kind words. I have another mixed china table coming up, but first I did one where I actually used a matched set – very unusual for me! 😉 Thanks again for taking the time to say hello!
Hi Lory,
I always thought that everything in my apartment needed to match – same colors, same patterns, and honestly, it was stressful. It really, it’s so much more fun to have “no rules” and I’m happy to see you expressed the same feeling!
I’m so glad that you got to pick out your own china and mix in your Paris pieces. Although special, it’s great to not feel obligated to always use family sets and let your own style take over.
I discovered your site recently and just wanted to say you have great content that’s relatable and worth reading. I keep coming back to read more. 🙂 Beautiful tablescape by the way! Tulips are my very favorite!!
Thank you so so much, Kellie, for your lovely comment!! Welcome to the blog and I’m so happy it resonates with you… 🙂 Lots more to come, so stay tuned! And yes, I so agree about how important it is to be free to create a home (or anything else in your life) that you love.
Lovely…gentle…reminiscent of long summer afternoons spent sharing stories with friends at the table…long after the luncheon has been cleared away. We should be neighbors, and I’d invite you to explore my china room to mix and match to your hearts content. Beautiful design, well conceived and executed. Thanks for inviting us for a peek. Cherry Kay
Absolutely a beautiful table and decor used
Very pretty! Favourite would be what you did with the candlesticks.
I was raised to set a traditional table. I’m 78 years old, and am trying to make some of these changes. I do a Widow’s Ministry in my church, and I have found that almost no one knows how to properly set a table — especially the placement of the silverware. I was sure when I moved from Colorado to Atlanta, I would find folk who knew how to set a table. Not! I have been forced to relax my style, or would end up hurting lots of helpers feelings. Love your confidence in doing things your way, and it gives hope to all of us that we too can be more individual in our table settings. Thank you so much.
You’re most welcome, Linda! I think the key is to know the rules, and then to consciously decide to change things for the right reasons (such as the new placement delights you… ;-)). It’s kind of like the impressionist painters. They knew how to paint classically, but made changes anyway, and we’re all better off for it!
Isn’t it funny how sometimes, a catastrophe becomes a blessing in disguise? This is a beautiful tablescape and I’m in love with the colour of those glasses. I love to mix and match my tableware too and also place my flatware wherever it feels right for that particular setting – this year for my Easter tablescape, I’ll be resting it on the plates. Happy Easter!
I love that idea and I wish you a wonderful Easter!! Thanks for your kind words. It’s so nice to know my posts reach like minded people… 🙂
I loved reading about your tablescapes and that you break the rules with the china and silverware placement!! Rebel or not, it adds to the beauty and fun of decorating a table. 😁
Thank you so much, Angie!
I have to laugh at the silverware. Each day my husband empties the dishwasher and sets the table for dinner, with the knife and fork on the right! I keep telling him where the fork belongs, but he doesn’t care. Maybe he should start his own blog!
Love the dishes btw.
Haha, love that!!
Hi Lory,
What an absolutely lovely table. I am in love with the pink Bobeche on your candlesticks. Are they vintage or do you know where I could get them. They are gorgeous. Always love your blog. Cindy
Thank you, Cindy! Yes, they are vintage, although likely not that old, but I ddid buy them in a one-off store.
This new series is going to be so much fun! Your tables are delightful and so inspiring. Love your philosophy on silverware placement! You always see the glass half full and can take a catastrophe and turn it into a great discovery. Looking out for my hummingbirds to return soon! XOXO
What sweet words! Thank you!!